Yesterday, I taught a class on Discipleship Counseling to the team leaders here at Quest. It was a great class, they had lots of good questions, and learned, I think, some useful principles. Biblical counseling, at its heart, is about helping the counselee work through the obstacles preventing them from walking freely with Christ by applying the message of the gospel to their lives. In fact, nearly every problem young men deal with boils down to a skewed perspective of themselves or of God and is solved through applying the Gospel to this deficit. What is this Gospel?
It boils down to this: Humans were created to glorify God. We were meant to live for His glory. However, everyone has failed to do this. We deserve death, eternal death, as the just consequences of this failure. The wonder of the Gospel is that Jesus Christ, through his life, death, and resurrection, paid the price. The benefits of this are available to anyone who repents and trusts in the Lord. As a result, we get what satisfies us most: Jesus Christ as our treasure.
Unfortunately, most young men in America today do not believe this gospel. There are two false gospels that seem to have stolen the hearts of Americans. These “religions” have supplanted true Christianity in many churches; and seem together to form the predominant belief system of Americans today.
Therapeutic Moralism is the adherence to a certain moral code with the goal of benefiting oneself in the present life. We seek to assuage guilt by being good; to have a good life for ourselves by being nice to others; to get rid of problems and past obstacles by following God’s principles for living. As many people have demonstrated, the principles found in the Bible are true, and you will gain temporal benefit for following them regardless of your view of God and Christ. However, this approach ultimately fails in eternity, as many good-doers are told by Jesus, “I never knew you” and condemned to an eternity in hell. In the short term, it also fails: What we need most is fellowship with Christ. The gospel, for all its eternal and temporal benefits, is really all about getting us what will satisfy us most: Christ, as our treasure. And so the practice of Therapuetic Moralism will never quite satisfy; our soul will continue to hunger for the Bread of Life.
Only slightly different is the Gospel of Personal Peace and Affluence, otherwise known as Materialism. This false gospel tells us that we must “look out for number one,” and ultimately life is about our lives being comfortable, our needs and wants met, and our every desire fulfilled. It casts a short-term perspective aimed at instant gratification, and defines hell as being without what we want, poor, uncomfortable, or stymied. We then make an idol out of the means use to meet our desires—a false idol, because the only thing that ultimately satisfies is Christ. This is a religion, complete with deities (Visa & Mastercard, Amazon & eBay), sacrifices, temples (your local mall), and shrines on every street corner. It is disgusting. Ultimately, it fails us because we spend our short lifetimes searching in all the wrong places for satisfaction, only to show up before the throne of God and realize that we spent our whole lives seeking our own glory and not His. Death awaits. In the short term, this only will lead to disappointment, frustration, obesity (both physical and spiritual), and an endless searching for fulfillment.
Finally, many Christians twist the gospel slightly and begin making God’s promises dependent on their performance. I fall into this trap when I start to blame my own failings for the perceived lack of blessing, or glory in my spiritual successes when I notice God’s hand on my life. This error is properly slipping into a works-based salvation, or the performance gospel. If I can lose my acceptance with God because of my works, then my salvation/acceptability in God’s eyes depends on my works, thus negating the finished work of Christ on the cross. This leads to either depression (if failing) or pride (if succeeding). Both prevent us from being satisfied in God.
The cure for all three of these skewed viewpoints is proper theology. A careful reading of the New Testament, rejoicing in the immutability of God’s promises and the amazing grace He has poured out for us. As we work out our salvation, figuring out how the gospel affects every area of our life, we will come to realize: a) What an amazing gift God has given; b) How unworthy we are of it; c) How this fact changes the way we live.